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From: dsn@tove.UUCP (Dana S. Nau)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: overweight singles
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Date: Fri, 22-Feb-85 10:54:50 EST
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> ... So
> I started allowing myself to experience being a sexy desirable
> woman, and it has changed the way men react to me.  Note that
> this didn't have to do with the way I dressed or did my hair
> or wore my makeup.   It was more to do with my inner experience
> of myself.

Very good point.  One of the most useful concepts to arise out of modern
psychotherapy is that how one expects others to react determines to a
large extent how others DO react.  I've seen examples of this many
times, both in others and in myself.
-- 
Dana S. Nau		    ARPA:   dsn@maryland
Computer Science Dept.	    CSNet:  dsn@umcp-cs
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