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From: damon@nisysg.DEC
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: single/addoptees
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Date: Sat, 23-Feb-85 14:37:56 EST
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Path: decvax!decwrl!rhea!roll!nisysg!damon
Subject: single/addoptees 
Posted: 2/23/85 2:20pm


	I'm an adoptee, that has resently found his birthmother and 
working on meeting his birth father.  My ? is has any one else gone 
through this experiance out there in Singles Land?  And if so would 
you care to share your experiances?   Even if you havn't thought of 
looking for your birth parents as of yet- there may be things you 
might be going threw that you may want to dump out.  
	One of these problems that I face is a very low self estem.
Which I'm in the process of learning to overcome.  It has cost me 
many poor beginings in relationships ( which end the same ) yet I 
know someday things will work out.  
	Right now there's one particular girl I'm rather fond of,
yet many fears creap in causing major problems -- on my part.
Perhaps someone out there has a tequineque for overcomming these 
fears of rejection?




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		ed damon
		digital epuipment Corp.