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From: laura@utzoo.UUCP (Laura Creighton)
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Subject: Re: good book for adoptees/birthparents
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Date: Wed, 27-Feb-85 11:52:51 EST
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I know some people who have given up children for adoption.
They do not want to be found again. By the time their children
are old enough to go looking, they have/expect to have their
own lives. They do not want the distravtion or responsiblity of
a new person in their life who has strong feelings as to how they
should behave or who might want to cliam a relationship which they
do not want to acknowledge.

it may be that in 15 years they will change their tune. But I hate the thought
of people tracking them down in the middle of the night when they do not
wish to be found.

Laura Creighton
utzoo!laura