Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site mit-eddie.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!ihnp4!mit-eddie!barry From: barry@mit-eddie.UUCP (Mikki Barry) Newsgroups: net.abortion Subject: Re: Reply to Mikki Barry's comments Message-ID: <3809@mit-eddie.UUCP> Date: Fri, 15-Mar-85 23:52:08 EST Article-I.D.: mit-eddi.3809 Posted: Fri Mar 15 23:52:08 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 17-Mar-85 01:26:52 EST References: <232@dscvax2.UUCP> Organization: MIT, Cambridge, MA Lines: 41 It is the kind of hysteria such as yours that makes it impossible for any compromise in the abortion issue. I HAVE had friend go to abortion clinics, and I HAVE gone with them. I will tell you that the clinics I have been to are VERY concerned with the woman involved. They ask her over and over again if she is sure she wants the abortion, and if she would like to be referred to a mental health pro if she wants to clarify her own choice to herself. Most clinics also offer many gynecological services besides abortion, so believe me, they don't live on abortion money. They don't need to talk anyone into abortions because the vast majority of women who go there are prefectly aware of their choice. It sickens me that some think that women are people who have to be protected because they can't make their own choices and are so easily persuaded to do something they consider horrible by unscupulous people who just want money. Women are perfectly intellegent enough to make their own decisions. They dont need help from you. As for picketing clinics with pickled fetuses, I have SEEN a 12 week miscarriage. It was approximately 1 and a half inches long, and NOT EVEN CLOSE to fully formed. By picketing a clinic in NH, pro-lifers harrassed women who were deciding whether to participate in an FDA experimental program with cervical caps as contracteption. They defeated their own purpose of stopping unwanted pregnancies. (Or is it only the aftermath that they are concerned with?) When a woman who has decided that an abortion is the best thing for her (and sometimes for the fetus as well), does she need to have farcical pictures shoved in her face and be called a murderer? She is already traumatized enough. What if the same woman was approached by someone offering a realistic alternative. What if she was told of a free program whereby she would be taken care of, and receive adoption help, or help taking care of the baby? Wouldn't that be more productive than the lies being pushed in her face now? PLEASE, for the sake of all women, stop the hysterical reaction to abortion and work on something to benefit everyone - prevention of unwanted pregnancy? Stop spending money on picketing, farcical films, and insulting women's intellegence and put it into group homes, financial aid for pregnant women and birth control information. Isn't that better than raising everyone's blood pressure? Mikki Barry