Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 8/7/84; site ucbvax.ARPA Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!ihnp4!ucbvax!luria From: luria@ucbvax.ARPA (Marc Luria) Newsgroups: net.religion.jewish Subject: Re: "Jewishness" of non-blood-relations Message-ID: <5457@ucbvax.ARPA> Date: Tue, 12-Mar-85 17:04:42 EST Article-I.D.: ucbvax.5457 Posted: Tue Mar 12 17:04:42 1985 Date-Received: Wed, 13-Mar-85 07:43:45 EST References: <146@pyuxww.UUCP> <9039@brl-tgr.ARPA> <520@sfmag.UUCP> Reply-To: luria@ucbvax.UUCP (Marc Luria) Organization: University of California at Berkeley Lines: 12 Summary: A sad case related to this occurred in our synagogue a couple years ago. A boy who was to be Bar Mitzvad here. Just a few weeks before the bar mitzvah it was discovered that the mother was not Jewish, and therefore the boy was not. This could have easily been remedied becuase the conversion process for a boy under the age of 13 is relatively easy. Unfortunately, the bar mitzva was scheduled to take place a couple months after his birthday. Conversion of a boy over 13 would have been much more difficult since it would have been necessary for the boy to appear before a Bet Din (Jewish court). In the end he didnot have the Bar Mitzva here. I just wanted to point this out to those who know of people in similar situations, to inform them that acting early or at least discussing the problem with a knowledgable rabbi, could save much grief later.