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From: sunny@sun.uucp (Ms. Sunny Kirsten)
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Subject: Re: screening questions
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Date: Wed, 13-Mar-85 11:35:14 EST
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> What are your favorite questions for screening out unsuitable people?

My favorite question is:
	Do you smoke?
	Oh... nevermind... I don't kiss ashtrays.

> -- Phil Ngai:
>  Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. Yes is the answer.

Sex is not the question.  Sex is not an answer.  Sex is only an element
of initmacy, and only one way of expressing affection.  It is only one
piece in the puzzle of relationships.  It is not an end in itself.
Which is not to say it is not *very* important and not *very* enjoyable.
It is to say that there are elements of relationships of even more import.
Only spiritual intimacy can make sex truly fulfilling, so that you don't
feel hungry again an hour later.  Without snuggles and cuddles and warm
loving affection and intimacy, you've had only...sex.  You can do that
with anyone, anytime.  It's easy to say yes.  But is it fulfilling?  No.
So which is it, Phil?  Not enough sex? or not enough fullfillment?
Why else would you advertise in your signature file?

I've heard that there are those who talk about it, and those who do it.
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{ucbvax,decvax,ihnp4}!sun!sunny (Ms. Sunny Kirsten)