Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site decwrl.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!allegra!bellcore!decvax!ucbvax!decwrl!dec-rhea!dec-curium!jackson From: jackson@curium.DEC (Seth Jackson) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Yep, one more article about girls and women Message-ID: <1231@decwrl.UUCP> Date: Thu, 21-Mar-85 13:24:56 EST Article-I.D.: decwrl.1231 Posted: Thu Mar 21 13:24:56 1985 Date-Received: Sat, 23-Mar-85 02:41:29 EST Sender: daemon@decwrl.UUCP Organization: DEC Engineering Network Lines: 26 > L S Chabot > If "boy" or "girl" is used when referring to your work, the speaker is stating > that you're not mature enough to have your work taken seriously. A comment > overheard about an engineer at some other company when speaking about the lack > of merit in her technical expertise: "She's only a twenty-five year-old girl!" > Wouldn't some of you get a little annoyed to hear yourself referred to as a > boy or a girl in reference to your competence? Yes, I probably would. However, the "feminists" whom I have met don't generally restrict their flaming to the above (rare) usage of "girl". I tend to use the word "girl" to refer to any female with whom I would socialize. For males, the word I usually use is "guy". Sometimes I use "man" or "woman", but these words (to me) generally connote either an older person, someone in a position of authority, or a reference to a person in a business/professional setting. If people get upset with this common, non-derogatory use of these words, then I suspect it's really something else that's bothering them. Aren't there more important things to be worrying about? __ "We used to play for silver, now we play for life..." Seth Jackson