Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site osu-eddie.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!harvard!talcott!panda!genrad!decvax!bellcore!allegra!ulysses!mhuxr!ihnp4!cbosgd!osu-eddie!beslove From: beslove@osu-eddie.UUCP (Adam Beslove) Newsgroups: net.singles,net.kids,net.motss Subject: Single men who want kids? The results! & a new question. Message-ID: <200@osu-eddie.UUCP> Date: Sat, 30-Mar-85 00:44:51 EST Article-I.D.: osu-eddi.200 Posted: Sat Mar 30 00:44:51 1985 Date-Received: Fri, 5-Apr-85 11:07:23 EST Distribution: net Organization: Ohio State Univ., CIS Dept., Cols, Oh. Lines: 30 Xref: linus net.singles:5486 net.kids:945 net.motss:1277 *** REPLACE THIS LINE WITH YOUR 67 BUG *** The mail on this one has been interesting. There are definitely some single men out there who want kid(s). Some would like kid(s) with no wife by choice, others would like kid(s) and a wife but would settle for just kid(s). One note from a man who helped out a female friend in the situation wrote: " ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- I have actually been involved in such a situation. The woman involved was 39 and didn't want to wait around to have her second child. Her first child was clearly bright and sociable like her mom. She and I made an arrangement that she wouldn't ask for support and I wouldn't ask for custody. My daughter was born last August, and our friendship continues. She is very happy with how things worked out and I am too... --------------------------------------------------------------------------- " [name withheld by request] I got absolutely NO negative mail on this topic!!! Here is a very representative note: "It would be nice to have both but that may not be possible." [name withheld pending permission to post it] !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEW PROVOCATIVE QUESTION! Would any single men out there in netland consider hiring a surrogate mother. Would you consider asking a close friend to bear your child?