Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 (Tek) 9/28/84 based on 9/17/84; site shark.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!houxm!vax135!cornell!uw-beaver!tektronix!orca!shark!charliem From: charliem@shark.UUCP (Charlie Mills) Newsgroups: net.kids Subject: Re: Thumb-sucking .... Message-ID: <1327@shark.UUCP> Date: Thu, 11-Apr-85 10:20:14 EST Article-I.D.: shark.1327 Posted: Thu Apr 11 10:20:14 1985 Date-Received: Sat, 13-Apr-85 05:48:41 EST References: <1524@decwrl.UUCP> <273@faron.UUCP> Reply-To: charliem@shark.UUCP (Charlie Mills) Organization: Tektronix, Wilsonville OR Lines: 22 Summary: In article <273@faron.UUCP> sidney@faron.UUCP (Sidney Markowitz) writes: >In <1524@decwrl.UUCP> faucher@futbal.DEC (Cathy Faucher 381-2207) writes: >>Any suggestions on how to wean a 3 1/2 from >>sucking his thumb ??? > >... You can set up what is >called a "double bind" in which the child can either do what you say, which >is what the child claims to want, except even more, or else rebel and stop >the originally rebellious behavior... How can anyone think thumb-sucking is rebellious behaviour? Clearly it stems from a need to suck or a need for the security associated with sucking. How can a need for security be construed as rebellious? -- Charlie Mills UUCP: ..{ucbvax,decvax,uw-beaver,hplabs,ihnp4,allegra}!tektronix!shark!charliem CSNET: shark!charliem@tektronix ARPA: shark!charliem.tektronix@rand-relay USMail: M/S 61-277 Tektronix, Inc. P.O. Box 1000 Wilsonville, OR 97070