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From: seth@megad.UUCP (Seth H Zirin)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: dates
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Date: Wed, 17-Apr-85 14:30:35 EST
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Posted: Wed Apr 17 14:30:35 1985
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> Recently I moved to New Jersey from Colorado for my job.
> I have noticed at clubs that all the girls dance together
> and all the guys stand around and drink. Is there a reason
> these men go to clubs? I go to dance, but, no asks me or anyone 
> else. This is a big difference to me, coming from Colorado.

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I have noticed this also, but from a different angle.  When I go to clubs on
Long Island and ask girls to dance, they generally say things like "I don't
feel like dancing" or "no thank you", rather than "sure, I'd like to".  A few
minutes later I see the girl dancing with one of her "friends".  This doesn't
happen to just me, my friends confirm this phenomon.

One of my close female friends tells me this occurs because women are asked
to dance by literally 20-30 guys a night and cannot satisfy all requests, so
they must decline some of them.  It appears that a lot of guys just give up
after five or ten rejections (who likes rejection) and stand around and
drink beer (out of bottles) and leer at the women.

If all the women at these clubs would say "yes" to every guy, the average
guy's confidence would improve and the problem would vanish.

How about it girls??????
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