Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site brunix.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!allegra!bellcore!decvax!genrad!panda!talcott!wjh12!foxvax1!brunix!sdo From: sdo@brunix.UUCP (Scott Oaks) Newsgroups: net.motss Subject: Re: Gay magazines Message-ID: <10521@brunix.UUCP> Date: Sun, 5-May-85 17:54:37 EDT Article-I.D.: brunix.10521 Posted: Sun May 5 17:54:37 1985 Date-Received: Wed, 8-May-85 04:02:22 EDT References: <383@sdchema.UUCP> Reply-To: sdo@nancy.UUCP (Scott Oaks) Organization: Brown University Computer Science Lines: 32 Summary: In article <383@sdchema.UUCP> bang!blia!eric (Eric Allmanam) writes: > >I would argue that the "problem" with "gay-oriented literature" is that >it is inherently sexually oriented. To put it another way, the only thing >that really makes gays different from straights is (as a psychologist >friend of mine once put it) sucking and fucking. When I read gay >magazines, I have implicitly stated that I am interested in whatever >it is that separates gays from straights: sex. When straight men read >Playboy they have made the same statement, and although Playboy makes a >big deal of having "legitimate" articles, they still have sexually >explicit centerfolds and advertisments. I can't agree with this analysis: if I had been raised in a different world, then perhaps I would differ from straight people only in the manner in which I have sex. But since I was raised here and now, I (and presumably other gay people) have certain interests which are not shared by the population at large: there are a variety of issues which affect me--coming out, job security, living a "non-traditional" lifestyle--which far extend specific sexual practices. These things also separate gays from straights, and it isn't necessary that a magazine catering to gay people focus only (or even primarily) on overt sexuality. Having said that, I must state that I don't necessarily mind the ads in Christopher Street et. al. Certainly I don't mind looking at the men :-). And Eric's later argument--that ads in straight publications are also full of sexual overtones--is one with which I agree. But the assumption that gay = sex (and only sex) is one I find troubling: it denies a wealth of other attitudes and feelings which we all experience. Scott Oaks Brown University {decvax, ihnp4, allegra}!brunix!sdo