Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site utastro.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!ut-sally!utastro!jeff From: jeff@utastro.UUCP (Jeff Brown the Scumbag) Newsgroups: net.singles,net.social Subject: Re: What people look for in MOTAS Message-ID: <73@utastro.UUCP> Date: Fri, 10-May-85 23:26:24 EDT Article-I.D.: utastro.73 Posted: Fri May 10 23:26:24 1985 Date-Received: Mon, 13-May-85 00:13:53 EDT References: <147@unc.UUCP> <158@unc.UUCP> <235@sdcc13.UUCP> <9572@rochester.UUCP> Organization: U. Texas, Astronomy, Austin, TX Lines: 29 Xref: linus net.singles:6005 net.social:487 [-bleeg-] > Like yourself!! Smile!! One's attitude and carriage has as > much to do with attractiveness as facial features or other characteristics. > Get into shape physically and your confidence will improve. A positive > self-image and a confident air are ESSENTIAL components of "attractiveness". I've seen several cases where a *physical* change wasn't necessary. As some of my acquaintances have approached the end of their thesis work here -- by which I mean they've solved the "big problem" and are in the stage of writing -- suddenly MOTAS seem to zero in on them (despite their having less time to spend on extracurriculars due to frantic writing) for no "discernable" reason. We cooked up two hypotheses, the first being that the psychological lift makes one more attractive; the second was more cynical (that MOTAS are evil enough to try drain off one's time which should be spent in trying to get done!). Probably the former is the case though you never know (:-)) Just the suggestion "Like yourself" won't do it for you, I'm sure: you need a *reason* to gain your own approval. That makes things much more difficult. Jeff Brown the Scumbag ...utastro!jeff ------------------------------------------------------------------ It's hard to be insulted when you're able to accept the core fact that you're an asshole. -- Harlan Ellison