Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 (Tek) 9/28/84 based on 9/17/84; site hammer.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!houxm!vax135!cornell!uw-beaver!tektronix!orca!hammer!seifert From: seifert@hammer.UUCP (Snoopy) Newsgroups: net.singles,net.women Subject: Re: dancing and singles' bars Message-ID: <1248@hammer.UUCP> Date: Sat, 11-May-85 17:59:22 EDT Article-I.D.: hammer.1248 Posted: Sat May 11 17:59:22 1985 Date-Received: Mon, 13-May-85 03:15:48 EDT References: <5160@ucla-cs.ARPA> <640@pyuxc.UUCP> Reply-To: seifert@hammer.UUCP (Snoopy) Organization: The Daisy Hill Puppy Farm Lines: 31 Xref: watmath net.singles:6958 net.women:5017 Summary: In article <640@pyuxc.UUCP> chris@pyuxc.UUCP (R. Hollenbeck) writes: >>The main problem is there are those >>who go to get laid, and they assume everyone else does as well. > >I've said (posted) this before, and I'll say it again. What's >wrong with going out to get laid? > >Chris The problem isn't that they are going out to get laid, the problem is that they are ASS-U-MEing that everyone else is also out to get laid. Can you say "egocentric"? Good! People go to bars for a variety of reasons. Some go to drink. (Hopefully these people are taking the bus/cab/etc back home) Some go to dance. Some go to play videogames. Some go to meet people (in general). Some are looking for an SO. Some are looking for a one-night-stand. Some are out-of-town with nothing better to do. Some just tagged along when the rest of the volleyball team went. Some go to see the band. Some go to 'scope-out the crowd. (people watch) Some go to sit in front of the projection TV and laugh at the Cubs. And so on... Anyone going to a bar and ASS-U-MEing that anyone else there is there for anything resembling the same reasons is highly likely to be dissappointed. Snoopy tektronix!mako!seifert "Drink up, now, it's gettin' on time to close"