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From: dsn@tove.UUCP (Dana S. Nau)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: second tries
Message-ID: <209@tove.UUCP>
Date: Wed, 15-May-85 00:37:26 EDT
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Posted: Wed May 15 00:37:26 1985
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Organization: U of Maryland, Laboratory for Parallel Computation, C.P., MD
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In article <2847@sdcc3.UUCP> fritzz@sdcc3.UUCP (fritzz) writes:
>Does anybody out there have any experience or ideas on restarting a
>relationship once it has been broken up?
>
>The scenario is this: My current XSO and possible SO2B is seriously
>considering the possibilities of getting back together with me. She
>"left" me about 8 months ago (we have remained the best of friends),
> ... What I am worried about is how to deal with the resentment of what
>happened between us, and my pain from the breakup. I have forgiven her,
>but ...

What you say confuses me.  If you really have forgiven her, and if you
really are the best of friends, then what is there to worry about?  Residual
resentment is a problem only if you choose to make it a problem--and if you
really have remained close friends with her, it sounds like you're already
chosen not to make it a problem.  Is there something else bothering you that
you haven't mentioned?
-- 
Dana S. Nau,  Computer Science Dept.,  U. of Maryland,  College Park, MD 20742
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