Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site unc.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!mcnc!unc!fsks From: fsks@unc.UUCP (Frank Silbermann) Newsgroups: net.singles,net.social Subject: Re: What people look for in MOTAS Message-ID: <253@unc.UUCP> Date: Sat, 18-May-85 16:05:03 EDT Article-I.D.: unc.253 Posted: Sat May 18 16:05:03 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 19-May-85 10:17:56 EDT References: <147@unc.UUCP> <158@unc.UUCP> Reply-To: fsks@unc.UUCP (Frank Silbermann) Organization: CS Dept., U. of N. Carolina at Chapel Hill Lines: 36 Xref: linus net.singles:6063 net.social:499 Summary: In article brower@fortune.UUCP (Richard brower) writes: > > >Occasionally wealth, power, fame or good social connections > >will substitute for good looks. > > > >MORAL: If you are dissatisfied with the men/women who've been available > > to you and want to increase your drawing power, one of the most > > effective things you can do is to become better-looking. > >Frank Silbermann > >Or obtain wealth, power, fame, and/or good social connections. Good point! It is very difficult to dramatically improve any single attribute. So, if you want to become more attractive to women, you should attack the problem on ALL fronts. Nevertheless, the best results come from improving your looks. If a woman is attracted to your looks, she'll probably assume that she is in love with you. Should you later lose your looks, she will still think of you the way you looked when she fell in love (in lust?). But if she is attracted to your wealth, power, fame or good social connections, she will probably be cynically aware of exactly what she is doing. Should you lose these attributes, you'll probably lose the woman, as well. Talk about being kicked when you're down! If she marries you for your money, she may begin scheming of ways to get rid of you, but still keep your money (ask Johnny Carson about this). As a final note, always remember: A good character,a loving personality and other INTERNAL attributes will earn you a long and happy relationship, provided you have the EXTERNAL attributes to attract the woman in the first place. Frank Silbermann