Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site oddjob.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!houxm!ihnp4!oddjob!london From: london@oddjob.UUCP (David London) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: "provocative" clothing Message-ID: <734@oddjob.UUCP> Date: Sat, 18-May-85 13:48:23 EDT Article-I.D.: oddjob.734 Posted: Sat May 18 13:48:23 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 19-May-85 00:49:51 EDT Distribution: net Organization: U. Chicago, Astronomy & Astrophysics Lines: 25 <> This discussion about whether women who wear "provocative" clothing are at fault (in part) for being raped is becoming increasingly offensive. It is truly distressing to see the number of (apparently sensitive, enlightened well-meaning) men who do not see what rape is all about. For instance, Ross Greenberg (not to singly out Ross, but his is the letter that I remember) suggests an analogy between a person walking around in a bad neighbourhood with $100 bills hanging out of his pockets, and a women wearing "suggestive" clothing. Ross, you just don't get it, do you? For the sake of argument, suppose I concede that I am partly at fault for getting robbed. In this case, the purpose of the robbery was to get my money. Rape is nothing like this. A woman is not raped because the man was so horny he couldn't stand it; a woman is raped BECAUSE SHE IS A WOMAN. This business about "provocative" clothing is a red herring, invented by men in order not to take responsibility for their actions and their attitudes toward women. (We) men have to start realizing that we are responsible for the way society (and other men) treat women. Perhaps the phrase "rape is not a crime of sex - it is a crime of violence" is overused. It certainly hasn't gotten through to many men on the net. Perhaps a new phrase is in order. David London ..!ihnp4!oddjob!london P.S. Sophie: your reply to Mark was right on target!