Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.PCS 1/10/84; site mtgzz.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!ihnp4!drutx!mtuxo!mtgzz!seb From: seb@mtgzz.UUCP (s.e.badian) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: "provocative" clothing Message-ID: <766@mtgzz.UUCP> Date: Mon, 27-May-85 02:35:11 EDT Article-I.D.: mtgzz.766 Posted: Mon May 27 02:35:11 1985 Date-Received: Wed, 22-May-85 01:56:29 EDT References: <734@oddjob.UUCP>, <193@timeinc.UUCP> Organization: AT&T Information Systems Labs, Middletown NJ Lines: 19 REFERENCES: <734@oddjob.UUCP>, <193@timeinc.UUCP> It still seems that men(and probably lots of women) confuse the act of rape with something resembling sex. You have to get away from this mental block. It just isn't so. When you consider the number of just plain women who are raped(women who are minding their own business, women who are dressed in unassuming clothes, older women who are being far from provocative) you suddenly realize that rapes are not commited because the woman was "asking for it." The only thing the women did to ask for it in most cases of rape is be born a women. That is all. Throwing in all this stuff about provocative clothes only confuses the issue. It throws the responsibility of rape back at the woman. "Well, look at the way she was dressed. Anyone would want to jump her bones!" Unfortunately, the fact that you may want to jump her bones has absolutely nothing to do with rape. It is an act of domination and that is all. Sharon Badian ihnp4!mtgzz!seb