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Subject: Re: What people look for in MOTAS
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Date: Wed, 22-May-85 23:07:00 EDT
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Posted: Wed May 22 23:07:00 1985
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>> If a woman is attracted to your looks ... (blah blah blah)
>>
>> But if she is attracted to your wealth, power, fame ... (blah blah blah)

    You don't *really* think that all women are looking for those
  things, do you?  That would be a pretty insulting
  generalization to make about the female population.

>> As a final note, always remember:  A good character,a loving personality
>> and other INTERNAL attributes will earn you a long and happy relationship,
>> provided you have the EXTERNAL attributes to attract the woman
>> in the first place.

     Some women get off on internals from the start and don't
  need to be attracted by externals.  Admittedly, this doesn't
  work well if you're trying to start a life-long relationship by
  finding a nice stranger in a crowded bar (I *still* don't
  understand how that works), but it's great for relationships
  that evolve from friendships with people you already know.

     I find that I feel much more physical attraction to the guys
  who have what it takes on the inside than I do to the ones who
  have what it takes on the outside.

     Conversely, I like for men to like me for what's on the
  inside.  Whenever a guy sees me walking down the street or
  sitting on a bus stop and immediately decides that he wants to
  "get to know" me, I get *very* suspicious (and annoyed).

     I enjoy good looks and status as much as anybody, but if
  they're not there I don't miss them one bit.  And they're
  certainly not the things that I look for first.  And if that's
  ALL that's there, I don't give 'em a second thought.

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		      Joan "the VMS group is moving mountains" Alexander
		      Interactive Systems,
		      Santa Monica, CA

		      I love male (excuse me, I meant to say "mail")

		      cca!ima!ism780!alexander
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     "Opinions expressed herein were not mine originally, but
      were forced on me at gunpoint by the Interactive Systems
      Corporation"