Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site h-sc1.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!harvard!h-sc1!desjardins From: desjardins@h-sc1.UUCP (marie desjardins) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Now is the time for all good men... Message-ID: <367@h-sc1.UUCP> Date: Mon, 20-May-85 19:07:32 EDT Article-I.D.: h-sc1.367 Posted: Mon May 20 19:07:32 1985 Date-Received: Thu, 23-May-85 00:39:51 EDT References: <738@oddjob.UUCP> Organization: Harvard Univ. Science Center Lines: 36 (excerpts from) Cheryl Stewart: > > Face it--"person" is a wimpy word. No > man (male or female) wants to be merely a PERSON or a THEY or a HE/SHE. > 1. People filling traditionally feminine roles would be > called "men". A nurse does a job which places him in > life-or-death situations. Therefore, he should do his > duty like a man. A parent does a job which molds the > very minds and souls of men at their inception. Like- > wise he should do his duty like a man, not shrinking > from the grave responsibility before him, treating the > young life with the appropriate sensitivity and good > judgement. Does this phraseology change your perception > of traditionally feminine roles? > > 2. People filling traditionally masculine roles would be > called "men". It's a man's world (so? we're all good > men here, aren't we? I know I'm at least as good a man > as you! You want to prove me wrong? You want to fight? > You don't like the way I do my nails? Well, I don't like > the way you do yours! So there!) Does this change your > perception of traditionally masculine roles? > > Are we not men? > No, we are NOT men. We are people. I very much resent the implication here: that "traditional" male qualities and roles are better than "traditional" female qualities and roles. I do NOT want to become more like a man, I just want the freedom to be whatever kind of PERSON I want to be. What IS this shit about "doing one's duty like a man"? (Of course, women never did their duty properly; the only way to do so would to become more manlike.) marie desjardins