Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site oddjob.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!ihnp4!oddjob!london From: london@oddjob.UUCP (David London) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re:Re: Men: you are not individuals Message-ID: <761@oddjob.UUCP> Date: Thu, 30-May-85 12:37:03 EDT Article-I.D.: oddjob.761 Posted: Thu May 30 12:37:03 1985 Date-Received: Fri, 31-May-85 04:09:44 EDT Distribution: net Organization: U. Chicago, Astronomy & Astrophysics Lines: 46 <> >> me (David London) > w linke >>So, I say to you men: you are *not* individuals. Society treats you as men, >>which, in most cases, has benefited you. Be willing to accept (in part) the >>blame for what other members of the group "men" do. And work to change men's >>attitudes towards women, blacks, etc. >> >> David London >> ..!ihnp4!oddjob!london >I am surprised to find that I am actually incapable of expressing in words >my contempt for this posting. Speak for yourself, London. If you want to >define your existence by what other people think of you, that's your >business. But the fact that I AM an individual can not be changed by what >you or anyone else may think. This is the sort of attitude which really annoys and dismays me. (Not the tone - I'm used to that on the net). Sorry, but you don't have a choice - your existence within this society IS defined (to a large extent) by what others think of you. You may shut your eyes and stamp up and down and shout "I am an individual", but it doesn't change the fact that society does not treat you as one (I assume you live in society?). For instance, if you (a man) and a woman apply for a job, and the woman is turned down because she is a woman (which happens a lot), how have you obtained the job on *your* merits? You haven't; you just got it because your competition was a woman, who was not treated as an individual. I think I'll push the point a bit further, and say that this attitude really has a tone of sexism, racism, etc.. If you really believe that you are treated as an individual, then you must believe that everyone is treated as an individual (because, if others aren't treated as individuals, then, since you interact with others, you must not be treated as an individual). Hence, there must be something less worthwhile in women, blacks, etc.. for not having gotten the same jobs (for instance) as men. After all, they are treated as individuals, and must have been rejected on their lack of merit. Working towards having everyone in society treated as individuals is an admirable goal. But don't fool yourself into thinking that anyone, you included, is treated as an individual in this society. David London ..!ihnp4!oddjob!london