Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/17/84; site mhuxt.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!js2j From: js2j@mhuxt.UUCP (sonntag) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Men: you are not individuals (Bull!) Message-ID: <895@mhuxt.UUCP> Date: Thu, 30-May-85 09:54:05 EDT Article-I.D.: mhuxt.895 Posted: Thu May 30 09:54:05 1985 Date-Received: Fri, 31-May-85 04:47:07 EDT References: <756@oddjob.UUCP>, <894@mhuxt.UUCP> <599@sphinx.UChicago.UUCP> Organization: AT&T Bell Laboratories, Murray Hill Lines: 45 > > From: js2j@mhuxt.UUCP (sonntag) > > I will never accept the blame for someone else's actions, > > nor allow anyone to accept the blame for mine. > > People are individuals, and they must be treated as such. Treating them > > as groups of faceless automata fullfilling societally defined roles is cruel, > > unfair, and exactly the kind of behavior which the feminist movement has been > > trying to change. > > Yes and no. The original point was that none of us lives in a vacuum > (no, not even engineers :-)). Hey, Melinda - thanks for redefining the origional point. The posting *I* was resonding to claimed that men weren't individuals, and that we all should share in the blame for the actions of other men. I really appreciate the way you've twisted things around to make it look as though I was argueing against affirmative action. Go back and look at my article which you replied to. Did I say anything about AA? Then why does your reply imply that I did? Were you just in a mood to slander someone today? Tactics like this are best left in net.flame where they belong. Just because I don't feel guilty for things other people have done doesn't mean I'm against giving women and minorities a fair shot. Do you think guilt is the only reason men wouldn't oppose AA? (I know, we're all such monsters.) > I won't take responsibility for the > actions of another, but I'm certainly going to recognize that what > someone else does can have an effect on my situation. The fact > remains that for much of this country's history, several groups > (classes, you might say) of residents were not allowed to participate > socially, economically, or politically. The effects of this are > still being felt at the individual level, even though most > individuals weren't participants. And the question remains -- what > are *you*, as an *individual*, going to do about it? Are you going > to say "Gosh yes, lots of people were treated badly for unacceptable > reasons and I'm going to do what I can to treat every individual the > best that I can," or are you going to say "Hey, it's not my fault. > I'm pulling down big bucks as an engineer, so the system works for > me. I think I'll just ignore all this equal opportunity nonsense." > > As a feminist, I'm not asking for privileges. I'm asking for parity. > Too bad that we can't get even that without complaints from those who > *are* privileged. -- Jeff Sonntag ihnp4!mhuxt!js2j "It doesn't matter what you wear, just as long as you are there." - Martha and the Vandellas