Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site unc.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!gamma!epsilon!zeta!sabre!bellcore!decvax!mcnc!unc!fsks From: fsks@unc.UUCP (Frank Silbermann) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: turndowns Message-ID: <462@unc.UUCP> Date: Mon, 17-Jun-85 12:27:42 EDT Article-I.D.: unc.462 Posted: Mon Jun 17 12:27:42 1985 Date-Received: Wed, 19-Jun-85 03:55:27 EDT References: <210@cuuxa.UUCP> Reply-To: fsks@unc.UUCP (Frank Silbermann) Organization: CS Dept., U. of N. Carolina at Chapel Hill Lines: 21 Summary: In article gregbo@houxm.UUCP (Greg Skinner) writes: (concerning turndowns) > >"I'm sorry, but I have a boyfriend." > >I just seemed to have this habit of asking >women out who were already going out with someone. I think some women who claim to have a boyfriend don't. They say they have one because it's as good an excuse as any. Don't forget that many times a woman LEAVES her boyfriend after meeting someone she likes better. If she had any interest in you, she probably would encourage causal "non-dates", where she can evaluate your further and decide whether or not you're worth giving up the bird in hand. Some of my relationships began while the woman was already dating someone else. The more outgoing (single) women are ALWAYS dating SOMEBODY. Frank Silbermann