Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site randvax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!gamma!epsilon!zeta!sabre!bellcore!decvax!ittvax!dcdwest!sdcsvax!sdcrdcf!randvax!edhall From: edhall@randvax.UUCP (Ed Hall) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: charges of rape, and good points Message-ID: <2515@randvax.UUCP> Date: Sat, 1-Jun-85 13:33:39 EDT Article-I.D.: randvax.2515 Posted: Sat Jun 1 13:33:39 1985 Date-Received: Thu, 6-Jun-85 04:15:47 EDT References: <446@ttidcc.UUCP> <603@sphinx.UChicago.UUCP> Organization: Rand Corp., Santa Monica Lines: 55 > From: regard@ttidcc.UUCP (Adrienne Regard), Message-ID: <446@ttidcc.UUCP>: > >Actually, there aren't a whole lot of rape accusations that hinge on anything > >so hard to prove as "state of mind". That is often offered as a defense, > >but the cases that go to court are usually pretty clear. Attorneys don't > --------------- > >like to take cases in that are utterly ambiguous -- and hearings prior to > ------------------------------------------------------------------------- > >the trial sort the wheat from the chaff. > --------------------------------------- > > *That's* what we're talking about. How many rapes are reported, how many > rapist are *known* yet are never even brought to trial, let alone convicted, > because of how difficult it is to *prove* that it was against her will? I > don't know for sure, but I'd be willing to bet it's a *lot*. > --JB Life is just a bowl. And why is it so difficult? Because there are some myths about sex in our society that tend to make it difficult. A short while back there was a comparison of robbery with rape. The comment was made that rape is much harder to prove than robbery. I think this belief is a perfect illustration of this myth-based attitude. I give people money all the time. Often it is in exchange for goods or services; sometimes it is a loan or a gift. Yet if I'm robbed, no one is likely to challenge my claim that I did *not* consent to give away my money. Even if there is no weapon involved! Yet a charge of robbery (especially unarmed robbery) is based simply on ``a state of mind''! Thus I must assume that there is an attitude--shared even by some otherwise clear-headed individuals on this net--that a woman is far more likely to bring a false charge of rape than a false charge of robbery. Only I doubt these clear-headed folks would put it in those terms. And what are these ``myths'' I talk about? I'll take a stab at defining one: this is the myth that a level of aggression approaching force is somehow a ``natural'' part of male sexual expression. *This* is certainly a major reason why society has such a problem deciding is a sexual act is concensual or forced; by this definition (which I vehemently disagree with) it may well become hard to determine whether a woman ``consented'' to an act where she is expected to be passive and overcome by male aggression even when it is ``normal''. I've had to deal with sales people who certainly are what I'd call aggressive concerning getting my money, but I doubt I'd have nearly as much of a problem proving robbery if one of them decided just to *grab* the money and leave, as a woman would have proving a charge of date rape, for example. There is no myth regarding the acts of sales people like there is regarding the acts of the ``male animal''... -Ed Hall decvax!randvax!edhall