Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site burl.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!geoff From: geoff@burl.UUCP (geoff) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: charges of rape, and good points Message-ID: <732@burl.UUCP> Date: Thu, 6-Jun-85 17:25:34 EDT Article-I.D.: burl.732 Posted: Thu Jun 6 17:25:34 1985 Date-Received: Fri, 7-Jun-85 02:36:08 EDT References: <446@ttidcc.UUCP> <603@sphinx.UChicago.UUCP> <2515@randvax.UUCP> Reply-To: geoff@burl.UUCP (geoff) Organization: AT&T Technologies, Burlington NC Lines: 37 Summary: In article <2515@randvax.UUCP> edhall@randvax.UUCP (Ed Hall) writes: > >A short while back there was a comparison of robbery with rape. The >comment was made that rape is much harder to prove than robbery. I >think this belief is a perfect illustration of this myth-based attitude. > > >I've had to deal with sales people who certainly are what I'd call >aggressive concerning getting my money, but I doubt I'd have nearly as >much of a problem proving robbery if one of them decided just to >*grab* the money and leave, as a woman would have proving a charge of >date rape, for example. There is no myth regarding the acts of >sales people like there is regarding the acts of the ``male animal''... > > -Ed Hall > decvax!randvax!edhall (yeah, bunches of stuff was deleted, but I trust I kept enough to avoid taking Ed's comments out of context) One major (maybe THE major) problem with proving rape is that there are very often NO WITNESSES. If I go to the police and say that you robbed me and had no bruises to show and no witnesses that you robbed me, they would say 'sorry 'bout that, bub'. If a woman was just threatened but not beaten (i.e., no bruises) and raped, she would also have a very hard time proving rape. In spite of this I do NOT believe in taking her word for it. If you don't have some good evidence, you don't have a case. If you were pissed at me for some reason, I wouldn't want you to be able to go to the police and say I robbed you, and have that be sufficient evidence to send me away for a few years. I am sorry if it seems I am siding with the rapist rather than the victim; I certainly don't feel that way. The potential for abuse of one person's word against another is just too great. 'Power corrupts. Absolute power corrupts absolutely' geoff sherwood