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From: woods@hao.UUCP (Greg Woods)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Hurting the other by a "no"
Message-ID: <1637@hao.UUCP>
Date: Thu, 18-Jul-85 14:50:10 EDT
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Posted: Thu Jul 18 14:50:10 1985
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> I'm a (almost totally) self-actualized individual and I KNOW that my
> emotions are my own CHOICE.  Yes, folks, choice.  If I cannot handle
> a no from you, it is my own growing that I had best tend to.  

   Very well put. I believe that this is absolutely true. The fact that
after exposure to this concept I was able to turn my entire emotional
structure around is proof enough for me. This does not mean that I never
feel bad, but the bad times come less often and last a shorter time than
before.

--Greg
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