Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site deepthot.UUCP Path: utzoo!dciem!psddevl!deepthot!zaphod From: zaphod@deepthot.UUCP (Lance Bailey) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Question of the hour. (good :-)) Message-ID: <622@deepthot.UUCP> Date: Mon, 22-Jul-85 10:21:35 EDT Article-I.D.: deepthot.622 Posted: Mon Jul 22 10:21:35 1985 Date-Received: Tue, 23-Jul-85 01:31:57 EDT References: <5557@cbscc.UUCP> <595@unc.UUCP>, <748@ihuxa.UUCP> Organization: UWO CS, London Canada Lines: 30 { it's not a bug ----- it's a feature !!!!!! } although i was the one to 'take the initiative' with my current and most special SO, in the past it is usually the case that i wait for my date to take it. This stems from the fact that I am quite INWARDLY shy (ie: try with all my might to hide it, sometimes with success) but in a one-on-one situation (cocoa on a snowy day by the window) i get VERY shy. The point is, once she takes the initiative, i know that she's interested in a bit of cuddling or hand-holding and a fair amount of the shyness disapears. So, I agree with julie. There's nothing wrong with eithor person taking the initiative. Sometimes even I take it (like with my current/permenent SO), but would not have minded at all if she had done so instead. {Turns out she was as shy as me, don't know how it all came together so beautifully. :-) } -- 4 222 4 4 2 2 4 4 2 would you say that this is a result of 44444 22 the "do-it if it feels good" generation? 4 2 -- i've got five bucks riding on it 4 2 4 22222 decvax!{utzoo|watmath}!deepthot!zaphod (Lance Bailey @ UWO Comp Sci, London, Canada)