Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version Tektronix Network News Daemon (B 2.10.2 based); site tektronix.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!houxm!mtuxo!mtunh!mtung!mtunf!ariel!vax135!cornell!uw-beaver!tektronix!moiram From: moiram@tektronix.UUCP (Moira Mallison ) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: "dead fish" handshakes given by males to females Message-ID: <5527@tektronix.UUCP> Date: Tue, 23-Jul-85 16:15:09 EDT Article-I.D.: tektroni.5527 Posted: Tue Jul 23 16:15:09 1985 Date-Received: Thu, 25-Jul-85 07:45:07 EDT References: <234@cuuxa.UUCP> <850@ihlpg.UUCP> <698@lll-crg.ARPA> <150@dcc1.UUCP> Reply-To: moiram@tektronix.UUCP (Moira Mallison ) Distribution: net Organization: Tektronix, Beaverton OR Lines: 15 Summary: In article <150@dcc1.UUCP> unixcorn@dcc1.UUCP (math.c) writes: > What really irritates me is that (in a social situation at least) IT IS >OFTEN FORGOTTEN THAT IT IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE WOMAN'S PEROGATIVE to initiate >the hand shake when being introduced to a new male. >If she doesn't put her hand out to be shaken, you (males) are not >supposed to push yours out there ( or worse yet, grab hers) > Oh, good heavens. Lobbying for the continuation of these archaic customs is ridiculous. Offering a hand to shake seems like a friendly gesture in any situation. I'm not too crazy about the grabbing (of anything) though. Moira Mallison tektronix!moiram