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From: cff@uvaee.UUCP (Chuck Ferrara)
Newsgroups: net.religion,net.singles
Subject: Re: Re: Re: marriage = commitment
Message-ID: <369@uvaee.UUCP>
Date: Wed, 24-Jul-85 19:06:00 EDT
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Posted: Wed Jul 24 19:06:00 1985
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Reply-To: cff@uvaee.UUCP (Chuck Ferrara)
Organization: EE Dept., U of Virginia, Charlottesville
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Summary: 

In article <203@steinmetz.UUCP> hammond@steinmetz.UUCP (Steve Hammond) writes:
>
>Not being married...
>I cannot imagine the kind of "baggage" that Robert speaks of.  I do
>know that there is no "baggage" clause in the marriage license or
>in the vows unless *you* put them there.  Why can't a couple continue
>to both work and seek active careers just as before?  

But, who stays home to raise the kids? Somebody has to do it. Unfortunately,
this means one partner must give up a career much too often. Children need
parental attention and they can be deprived of this if both parents
continue to work full time. If both partners want to
pursue their careers full-time, they have some serious decisions to make
if they want kids. 
-- 
	Chuck Ferrara @  U. Va. Dept. of EE; Charlottesville,Va. 22901 
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