Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/17/84; site hao.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!hao!woods From: woods@hao.UUCP (Greg Woods) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Emotions and choice Message-ID: <1659@hao.UUCP> Date: Fri, 26-Jul-85 15:59:12 EDT Article-I.D.: hao.1659 Posted: Fri Jul 26 15:59:12 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 28-Jul-85 06:25:46 EDT References: <5557@cbscc.UUCP> <591@unc.UUCP> Organization: High Altitude Obs./NCAR, Boulder CO Lines: 13 > A for > instance: what about someone who was brought up in a violent home who > now reacts to marital disagreement through violence, as learned in > childhood? Does that person react through "choice"? Actually, this is an excellent example. YES, they are reacting through choice. Such a person has built up a set of beliefs about what kinds of bahavior are appropriate, and is reacting in such a way that they can be right about those beliefs. The way to "treat" someone like this is to make them aware of the beliefs they have and to make them aware that they *can* choose to react in different ways than they have in the past. --Greg