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From: hoff@ihuxa.UUCP (GYPSY)
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Subject: Re: marriage = commitment (Chuq's comments)
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Date: Sun, 28-Jul-85 16:44:48 EDT
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> ...
> Baggage conversation here
> ...
> 
> I can't even begin to explain all of the pressures involved in marriage.
> What I CAN say is that being there, the difference exists, and it isn't
> all, or even mostly, in the control of the couple. The couple can make it
> better, or they can make it MUCH worse (trust me... *sigh*), but all
> couples have to deal with it. If you haven't been there, you don't have any
> idea of what it could mean.
> :From the carousel of the autumn carnival:        Chuq Von Rospach
> 

	I agree with the above (edited) article whole-heartedly!  There
ARE differences when you get married and you've had to have lived through
it before you KNOW.  Second hand stories or viewing just doesn't cut it.

		Gypsy (Julie Hoff)  ...ihnp4!ihuxa!hoff