Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site abnji.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!ihnp4!mhuxn!mhuxr!mhuxj!mhuxt!mhuxv!abnji!nyssa From: nyssa@abnji.UUCP (nyssa of traken) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: When are you really free of your X? Message-ID: <763@abnji.UUCP> Date: Sun, 28-Jul-85 16:24:28 EDT Article-I.D.: abnji.763 Posted: Sun Jul 28 16:24:28 1985 Date-Received: Mon, 29-Jul-85 07:57:36 EDT Organization: Terminus Hospital, Incorporated Lines: 20 As I mentioned last week, I have been breaking up with an SO. I put out a posting with "X(?)SO" describing my relationship with her... I didn't really know if it was over. I still don't, I miss her quite a bit, but I guess it is. Two comments were sent to me with reference to that posting which I think may be relevant to general discussion... Are you really free when you say you are? Am I free of my SO? When do I know I am? Also, is it fair to seek a new SO with the other fresh in my mind? Would I be fair to the new SO, or is she just a crutch to help in recovery from the XSO? Is this making sense? Any comments would be appreciated. -- James C Armstrong, Jnr. ihnp4!abnji!nyssa Armstrong c Wheeler b Ash 1 (rats)