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From: ajmiller@ihu1m.UUCP (a. miller)
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Subject: Re: Re: Re: marriage = commitment
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Date: Thu, 1-Aug-85 14:29:26 EDT
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> > > 
> > > My experience with "marriage ruining things" has not to do
> > > with the "commitment" involved but with the baggage that the culture
> > > adds to a marriage.  When two are living together they are equal
> > > partners -- if both are working, they expect to keep working.
> > > Once married, though, there is the role of the stay at home
> > > house wife that is now a possibility.  These things that "hang on"
> > > the roles associated with a marriage cause most of the tension
> > > that can destroy a relationship that was once "good" before the
> > > marriage.
> > > 
> > >    ..!{decvax,ucbvax}!sun!plx!adams             -- Robert Adams
> > 
Marriage from a christian's standpoint is an institution created by God.
He commanded be fruitful and multiply. Taking this into consideration involves
having children. For our species to survive children must be concieved.
To have a good and moral society free from anarchy someone must raise the
children. The christian beleives this is the wife's duties. With this in
mind someone must take care of the children. And that means 24 hours a day.
There is a responsiblity in being married. The most important is raising
children. The idea of quality time does not exist. What children need is
to be with their parents and the more time the better. If not the wife
than the husband. This should be commited before and kept during the marriage.
If the two cannot agree than they should not have children. I am glad that
my mom and dad concieved and raised me so that I can enjoy life now and later. 

			Andy Miller

			
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