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From: steiny@scc.UUCP (Don Steiny)
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Subject: Re: Re: marriage
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Date: Sun, 14-Jul-85 19:15:19 EDT
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>
>So my question is, `Where do the more serious women
>usually go to meet men?'
>David Bordeau
> 
	I think that it is not too hard to meet women.  It has
everything to do with your attitude.  I met my wife working
at a bookstore.  I was buying "Four Arguments for the Elimination
of Television," and we started talking.  She had a degree 
in English Lit, and she was interested in getting into technical
writing.  I invited her over to talk about it and one thing
lead to another.

	The catch is . . . I KNEW that I was interested in a serious
relationship, and that means marrige, kids the whole bit.  We are
stalling on the kids (money, you know), but I have to respect her 
desire to have kids.   

	If a woman has no children and she is in her late 20's,
she realizes that she has to have kids soon or their might
be more complications and eventually no possiblity.  That might
not bother some women, but others find that it is an important
decision.   Once I accepted the idea that some women I would 
meet wanted to get married and have children, and the consequences
that would have in my life if I were to be the lucky guy, suddenly,
it got real easy to meet women.