Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site ucsfcgl.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!ucbvax!ucsfcgl!arnold From: arnold@ucsfcgl.UUCP (Ken Arnold%CGL) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Anti-rape tactics - a conundrum Message-ID: <579@ucsfcgl.UUCP> Date: Thu, 18-Jul-85 19:36:16 EDT Article-I.D.: ucsfcgl.579 Posted: Thu Jul 18 19:36:16 1985 Date-Received: Sat, 20-Jul-85 05:56:51 EDT References: <392@mit-vax.UUCP> <2432@sun.uucp> Reply-To: arnold@ucsfcgl.UUCP (Ken Arnold) Organization: UCSF Computer Graphics Lab Lines: 28 In article <2432@sun.uucp> sunny@sun.uucp (Ms. Sunny Kirsten) writes: >Most rapes are committed by a person known to the rapee. This can be >husband, "boyfriend", date, or just "friend". Thus it is questionable >that rape will be solved by having some flavor of "friend" assuming >body-guard duty over each woman who would otherwise be alone. Do you >really think most rapes are committed in the street? Even given that this is so, many rapes are committed in the street. Otherwise women wouldn't need to feel afraid of walking alone at night (or any other time). It is important that people realize that rapes are committed by known people more often than not, but you cannot use this to dismiss the problem of protecting women at night. If a woman is leaving a party where she knows many people, it is seems reasonable to me to accept an escort from some man at the party she does not know, as long as she knows who does know him. This is primarily because, if a rape occurs, the man can be identified to the police, and he was seen leaving the party with that woman. Thus, he knows that he can be caught, which is (I believe) a deterrent to rape. Of course, this doesn't count if the people a woman goes to parties with are sleaze and would refuse to help. Such people are to be avoided at all costs. Since there are no absolutes, any woman should exercise some caution here. But I think that, given the choice between walking any distance alone and walking with a friend of a friend, I would expect it was safer to choose the latter. Ken Arnold