Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site ttidcc.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!ttidca!ttidcc!regard From: regard@ttidcc.UUCP (Adrienne Regard) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: PMS and incompetence Message-ID: <582@ttidcc.UUCP> Date: Mon, 22-Jul-85 13:49:17 EDT Article-I.D.: ttidcc.582 Posted: Mon Jul 22 13:49:17 1985 Date-Received: Wed, 24-Jul-85 06:32:03 EDT Organization: TTI, Santa Monica, CA. Lines: 43 >I have shared living quarters with three women, and in all three cases, I >have been able to tell at least two to three days before them when their >period is about to begin. >In *my* experience, the biggest problem women have with PMS is not >the physical/psychological side effects, but just plain 'fessing up >that there *are* some side effects.... > > Andy Cohill Experience is an interesting thing, because it is one of the few influences that actually change our beliefs (often, a presentation of the "facts" just doesn't do it). However, I'd be reluctant to base my opinion of PMS on a sampling of three women. What is presently known is that SOME women suffer a great deal due to this "syndrome" (which includes a number of actual symptoms and medically verifiable chemical changes). What is also know is that SOME women do not suffer at all from it. And then there are other women who suffer in some specific manner and to some specific degree. I wouldn't really worry about it if the president of the US happened to suffer from a 2 lb. waterweight gain ever 30 days or so, or happened to have slight breast tenderness every so often. I'd have a little more trouble if the president suffered blinding headaches for 5 full days out of 30 (John Kennedy had such a problem, but it wasn't on a schedule), or was completely bedridden for weeks at a time (pick any of our past presidents who have suffered various illnesses that kept them from office for signifi- cant periods of time). The point is, it's rather useless worrying about a woman's capacity re PMS, since, if she's motivated, she's hardly likely to let it handicap her, and if she isn't motivated, she's hardly likely to be a desirable employee (or public servant) in other respects. The _mistake_ is to presume that PMS is uncontrollable, unpredictable, universal or unmanagable. If you take a small sampling, you may have found people who currently suffer from some facet of the syndrome and have not yet bothered to deal effectively with it. You may also find that the women you talk with have no trouble with it AT ALL. You may also get a kick out of generalizing from the specific to the whole world, so your opinions can march on undisturbed, but I hope not. Adrienne Regard