Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site rtech.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!harvard!talcott!panda!genrad!decvax!tektronix!hplabs!amdahl!rtech!jeff From: jeff@rtech.UUCP (Jeff Lichtman) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Provocation ... and sunbathing Message-ID: <570@rtech.UUCP> Date: Thu, 25-Jul-85 03:43:09 EDT Article-I.D.: rtech.570 Posted: Thu Jul 25 03:43:09 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 28-Jul-85 09:37:14 EDT References: <3243@decwrl.UUCP> Organization: Relational Technology, Alameda CA Lines: 21 > As I was doing some beachcombing last week on a deserted stretch of beach > I came upon a sunbather wearing only a hat. Not knowing the appropriate > etiquette I kept on walking (and looking!). Is this "provocation" or what? > How far could I go I wondered, am I expected to strip before saying "good > morning - nice day" ? Can I be arrested if I exposed myself? Does this > mean she is "available?" > > What does Miss Manners of 1985 have to say about this? I would take this to mean that she likes to sunbathe in the nude. That's it. Lots of people enjoy doing this. It is in no way a provocation or an invitation, especially considering that the beach was deserted (except for you two). If I were in this situation I would walk by and try to keep my eyes from falling out of my head; if she wanted company she wouldn't be lying on a deserted beach. -- Jeff Lichtman at rtech (Relational Technology, Inc.) aka Swazoo Koolak {amdahl, sun}!rtech!jeff {ucbvax, decvax}!mtxinu!rtech!jeff