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From: pooh@ut-sally.UUCP (Pooh @ the Utility Muffin Research Kitchen)
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Subject: Re: Women of mystery.
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Date: Sun, 25-Aug-85 01:13:11 EDT
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In article <132@ssc-vax.UUCP> keith@ssc-vax.UUCP (Keith Nemitz) writes:
>
>   Do you see yourselves as mysterious to men?
>
>   If so, is it important to you that you remain mysterious?  Why?
>

Sometime last year I brought up the idea that many men
and women are not aware that the opposite sex is JUST
LIKE THEM.  Human wants and needs are pretty much
universal.  The only difference might be in some cases
that women and men are taught to go about fulfilling
and communicating their needs differently; that's all.

What would I gain my being "mysterious"?  Maybe some kind
of hold over someone who was trying to figure me out,
but that's not my idea of a relationship.  Being mysterious
would mean that I wasn't understood, and the one thing I
want most from a relationship is to be understood.

Cheers,
Pooh  

pooh@purdue-ecn.ARPA    pur-ee!pooh

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