Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83 based; site houxa.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!houxm!houxa!lmv From: lmv@houxa.UUCP (L.VANDERBILT) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Re: Are the sexes the same? Message-ID: <776@houxa.UUCP> Date: Fri, 6-Sep-85 13:39:56 EDT Article-I.D.: houxa.776 Posted: Fri Sep 6 13:39:56 1985 Date-Received: Sat, 7-Sep-85 07:15:03 EDT References: <132@ssc-vax.UUCP> <2738@ut-sally.UUCP>, <230@uwai.UUCP> <775@houxa.UUCP>, <349@cornell.UUCP> Organization: AT&T Bell Labs, Holmdel NJ Lines: 31 >> >> I don't treat conversations with my male friends any differently than >> I do my female friends. We talk about all the same things whether >> it is personal relationships, sex, jobs, family, etc.. The only time >> I don't talk about the same things is when I don't feel 100% comfortable >> around a person (will he understand? type of thing) I feel if a person >> is a true friend you should be able to talk about anything regardless of >> the topic. > >How about baseball? (;-)). > >Seriously, I'm not so sure that I go along with the abovestated sentiment. >Many of my friends have different interests, and non-interests as well, >and I notice that I talk about different things with them as a result. >This is pretty natural, I think; at least I feel natural doing so. > >Regards, >Rance Cleaveland > I understand that guys tend to talk about baseball and sports, etc. :-) and women about make-up, etc.. :-) (don't flame me, read on!) BUT THE ORIGINAL question was did you feel comfortable talking about things of a personal nature with friends of the opposite sex?? and did people on the net find they left personal topics to be discussed with members of the same sex?? my answer was i felt i could talk to members of either sex about things as long as i consider that person to be a friend!! Lynn vax135!houxm!houxa!lmv