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From: liz@unirot.UUCP (Mamaliz )
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Long Distance Relationships
Message-ID: <162@unirot.UUCP>
Date: Thu, 19-Sep-85 12:10:48 EDT
Article-I.D.: unirot.162
Posted: Thu Sep 19 12:10:48 1985
Date-Received: Sun, 22-Sep-85 13:29:06 EDT
References: <284@cylixd.UUCP> 2901@ut-sally.UUCP <2258CHF@psuvm>
Organization: The Soup Kitchen
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Summary: Go to The JOB, NOT the man

In article <2258CHF@psuvm>, CHF@psuvm.BITNET writes:
> Would anyone out their like to share their experiences with moving to be
> near an s.o. . I've somehow found myself in an ldr with a man that lives
> about 300 miles away. The relationship has been difficult, but also very
> satisfying.  I'm contemplating moving to be with him after graduation (Dec),
> but it wouldn't be in my best career interests.  The company I have co-oped
> with and would like to work for is 200 miles in the opposite direction :-(.

I have moved for jobs and moved for men.  My last move was lucky, it took
me near both the job I wanted (and just quit) and the man I wanted (3 years
next month). 

A friend of mine moved across the country (lengthwise) to live near her
ldr (another friend of mine).  They have since broken up, she found
herself broke (but with good friends) in a place she had no roots or
commitment to.

My experience is that ldr's come and go, a good satisfying job is
something to cherish.  Let your ldr come to you this time.

lizzy

topaz!unirot!liz


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