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From: martin@cornell.UUCP (Susan Martin)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Long Distance Relationships
Message-ID: <771@cornell.UUCP>
Date: Fri, 27-Sep-85 09:02:26 EDT
Article-I.D.: cornell.771
Posted: Fri Sep 27 09:02:26 1985
Date-Received: Sun, 29-Sep-85 07:55:43 EDT
References: <284@cylixd.UUCP> <2901@ut-sally.UUCP> <2258CHF@psuvm>
Reply-To: martin@cornell.UUCP (Susan Martin)
Organization: Cornell Univ. CS Dept.
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Summary: 

In article <2258CHF@psuvm> CHF@psuvm.BITNET writes:
>Would anyone out their like to share their experiences with moving to be
>near an s.o........

    I once moved to Oklahoma to be with my SO (at his request).  This lasted
for 9 (count 'em) 9 days!  I came back to New York miserable, but intact.
Two years later I moved to California, and he came 3,000 miles to be with
me!  We're still together, (people who read net.kids know more about this),
and are soon expecting a baby together.

    I guess you could say it worked out, but the circumstances have to be
right.  He really wasn't ready for me to move into his world when I did
(even though he thought he was), and although I could have had some swinging
times in California without him, I'm really glad he came.  Sort of proved how
he really felt about me.

    Hope this was helpful, if not, oh well!

    Think very carefully before giving up your life where you are to be
with him wherever he is.  

    Good luck whatever you decide,

SAM (a.k.a. Susan Annette Martin)
Computer Science Department
Cornell University


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