Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site gcc-bill.ARPA Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!harvard!gcc-bill!john From: john@gcc-bill.ARPA (John Allred) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Nominally single???? Message-ID: <354@gcc-bill.ARPA> Date: Wed, 9-Oct-85 09:22:35 EDT Article-I.D.: gcc-bill.354 Posted: Wed Oct 9 09:22:35 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 13-Oct-85 03:22:01 EDT References: <285@whuts.UUCP> <533@oakhill.UUCP> <286@whuts.UUCP> Reply-To: john@gcc-bill.UUCP (John Allred) Distribution: net Organization: General Computer Company, Cambridge Ma (Home of the HyperDrive) Lines: 19 Summary: In article <450@rti-sel.UUCP> wfi@rti-sel.UUCP (William Ingogly) writes: > >Obsessive longing for a shattered relationship and the feeling that >life has lost its savor without that special person are not signs of a >healthy mental state, folks. After a mourning period one gets on with >one's life. You might ask yourself WHY you fear the single state and >are unhappy spending time with yourself. Because that's what the verb >'need' implies in this context: a feeling that you MUST have a >relationship for life to be meaningful. > > -- Cheers, Bill Ingogly I think you're going too far here, Bill. Right now, I am single, unattached, having a good time, and feel that my life is meaningful. However, I also realize from experience that life goes better with someone special. -- John Allred General Computer Company uucp: seismo!harvard!gcc-bill!john