Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site ssc-vax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!ihnp4!houxm!vax135!cornell!uw-beaver!ssc-vax!ginger From: ginger@ssc-vax.UUCP (Ginger Grover) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: all those sailors Message-ID: <281@ssc-vax.UUCP> Date: Thu, 10-Oct-85 16:38:07 EDT Article-I.D.: ssc-vax.281 Posted: Thu Oct 10 16:38:07 1985 Date-Received: Sat, 12-Oct-85 20:40:37 EDT Distribution: net Organization: Boeing Aerospace Co., Seattle, WA Lines: 36 *** REPLACE THIS LINE WITH YOUR MESSAGE *** > From: cheryl@lasspvax.UUCP (Cheryl Stewart) > I agree with Ginger in that the male intellectual and emotional awareness > is often beneath contempt (e.g. Ray Frank). I disagree with Ginger's > limitation of femininity/masculinity to mere sexual posturing. This is unreal; last week I posted a simple question, and this week I'm defending myself from statements I never made. My response to Ray Frank was meant to sting a bit, but it was mainly supposed to be *amusing*, as was the quote from Ashley Montague. I'm sure Mr. Montague was not making a statement of fact, but exaggerating to make a point. Lighten up, will you? I don't think Mr. Frank is "beneath contempt" he's just inadequately socialized, an afflication not restricted to men only. [To Ray Frank: My apologies if I am incorrect about your degree of socialization. It occurs to me that you may simply be a Virgo, and for that there is no cure. Better luck next incarnation. :-) ] > it is difficult enough to keep men in their place WITHOUT gratuitous > sexual posturing The only ones doing any "sexual posturing" are the guys parading past my divan, and as for keeping them "in their place", what do you think the stable is for? :-) Come on, people - it is NOT NECESSARY for every discussion to degenerate this way. The masculine/feminine question was an attempt to initiate a positive exchange and perhaps find out that there are a lot fewer differences between men and women than is superficially apparent. Sheesh! Ginger ihnp4!uw-beaver!ssc-vax!ginger