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From: hachiya@uiucuxc.CSO.UIUC.EDU
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Subject: Re: what makes you feel feminine/ma
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Date: Tue, 15-Oct-85 15:25:00 EDT
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Posted: Tue Oct 15 15:25:00 1985
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Nf-From: uiucuxc.CSO.UIUC.EDU!hachiya    Oct 15 14:25:00 1985


I have many friends of the opposite sex with whom I have platonic
relationships with.  Usually, when I decide to pursue this kind of
friendship, I make it clear that it is strictly platonic.  So hopefully
there is no problem.  But sometimes I find they may want to be "more
than friends" when I don't.  

On the other hand, the people I "date" usually are not my friends 
initially.  It is assumed, more or less, that a sexual relationship
will develop if we get along well.

			       Donna H.