Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.3 4.3bsd-beta 6/6/85; site decuac.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!decuac!avolio From: avolio@decuac.UUCP (Frederick M. Avolio) Newsgroups: net.kids Subject: Re: wills Message-ID: <716@decuac.UUCP> Date: Thu, 5-Dec-85 13:20:35 EST Article-I.D.: decuac.716 Posted: Thu Dec 5 13:20:35 1985 Date-Received: Fri, 6-Dec-85 07:19:02 EST References: <772@drutx.UUCP> Organization: ULTRIX Applications Center, MD Lines: 45 In article <772@drutx.UUCP>, bjb@drutx.UUCP (BarnesBJ) writes: > Our pediatrician asked us to consider preparing a will and > establishing a trust fund after the birth of our first child. > > After considering it, I was very grateful he had mentioned > it. I can think of many relatives who would bring me out of my > grave if I knew they were going to raise my children. If by > > Also, setting up a trust fund insures that your child will have > funds to take care of him, but that the money won't be spent by > your 18-year old to tour the world, donate the money to a > religious cult, or buy a Rolls Royce. You can make any > stipulations to the trust you want to. Yes! Yes! And now-a-days it is so easy for most people to set up a will. (Some drug stores around here have forms to fill in!) You will have to decide about guardianship for children, name an executor, and name a trustee (not necessarily the same people). In other words, someone to care for the kids, someone to handle the estate after you are gone, to arrange things, etc., and someone to have control over the money until the children are "of age." You can, in your will, state when "of age" is and this can include something to insure that no money, etc is split up until after the youngest child is out of college, med school, etc. You want the kids to have the same chance for things like higher education that they would've had you lived. (Sorry... hope no one is reading this before bed-time!) And think hard about guardianship. Sure you love your parents. But think about their age and the ages of your kids. If you parents are in their 60s or 70s, perhaps someone younger (needn't be a couple, by the way) might be a better choice. Aside from the children, even if they are older, if you die without a will, the courts may decide what gets done with your estate. You have anything you want given to certain people? The courts will sell everything (perhaps) and split up cash. Don't sue me if you die and things don't go as you had planned. I am not a lawyer. And keep that will up to date! Oh, yeah... have a nice day -- Fred @ DEC Ultrix Applications Center {decvax,seismo,cbosgd}!decuac!avolio