Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site nmtvax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!ihnp4!qantel!hplabs!hao!seismo!cmcl2!lanl!unm-la!unmvax!nmtvax!maurice From: maurice@nmtvax.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Nominally Single??? Message-ID: <863@nmtvax.UUCP> Date: Mon, 11-Nov-85 01:21:12 EST Article-I.D.: nmtvax.863 Posted: Mon Nov 11 01:21:12 1985 Date-Received: Fri, 15-Nov-85 04:25:07 EST References: <1071@trwrdc.UUCP> <490@rti-sel.UUCP> <1079@trwrdc.UUCP> <> Reply-To: maurice@nmtvax.UUCP (Roger M. Levasseur) Organization: Insert cute organization title here Lines: 18 >> ....Life is dull without someone to love. >> Life is painful having loved and then lost one's love (especially >> through rather tragic means). But better to have loved and lost then >> never to have loved at all. Hey that's pretty good... I think I'll >> right that down. > >Do the people who mourn over the loss of an SO live in a >vacuum? Do they have no one else in their lives? >Of course I'd like to have an SO, but that's not going to >completely stop my interactions with other beings. >And I think that's healthy. Well, when an XSO dumps you like a container from Mc'D's, it takes a while before you are ready for another relationship. Friends are nice to have around at this period of time though. Its just that it is rather hard to be socialable to a SO with all these fresh pains and memories. Roger Levasseur