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From: djs@nbires.UUCP (D J Spalding)
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Subject: Re: Re: Nominally single???? A voice from the past.
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Date: Fri, 15-Nov-85 02:37:25 EST
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> Rememeber the adage where the girl ``plays hard to get''?  This is 
> deceitful little con whereby girls (all who are presumed to be
> desparate for a relationship) decieve the guys who don't want to be
> clung to that they are not clinging

This behavior, although sad, is at least forgivable at that age.  It's
if the girl grows up to be a woman and is still doing these things
that it's really scary.

On a related topic, one thing I've noticed that a lot of women do is to
try so hard to be the person that they think the man they're with wants
them to be, that they never really *are* what he wants them to be, which
is (if he's reasonable) just themselves.  Anyone else ever notice this?

Diana Spalding
{allegra, ucbvax, ut-sally, hao}!nbires!djs

"In the mountains, in the cities, you can see the dream
Look around you, has it found you, is it what it seems?"