Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site houligan.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!houxm!vax135!petsd!peora!ucf-cs!novavax!houligan!farmer From: farmer@houligan.UUCP (Bullwinkle) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Bullwinkle's response. Message-ID: <191@houligan.UUCP> Date: Thu, 21-Nov-85 17:40:21 EST Article-I.D.: houligan.191 Posted: Thu Nov 21 17:40:21 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 24-Nov-85 04:40:22 EST References: <186@houligan.UUCP>, <1125@mtx5a.UUCP> Organization: Gould Electronics, Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. Lines: 62 No Mr. Terribile, Bullwinkle is not perfect!!! I am the first to admit that and am quite able to live with it and still be happy while wrapped in this mortal coil. I am glad that you gave me an intelligent response and I have read Mr. Carnegie's book. The main purpose of my heavy-handed and overbearing assault on the sensibilities of the net's users was to get them to think about their attitudes towards other people. Personally, I do not try to harm people; I only try to get them to be open with each other and to still maintain the int- tegrity of their beliefs while being open minded enough to accept the view- points of others (I commend you on your ability to do so!!). I feel that the problem we have at hand concerns a stereotype. That is, the popular image of a "caring and sensitive" man. He cries when he makes love, is horribly romantic, and has practically no spine (i.e. he is weak and indecisive). The first two attributes are nice and show humanity, whereas, the third shows a person (male or female) who is not strong enough to take the blows dealt them by life. This is an attribute I loath. In my eyes, a "caring and sensitive" is one who is secure in his/her own beliefs and feelings yet open enough to respect the beliefs and feelings of others (I sense that we are in partial agreement here Mr. Terribile). In conclusion to this long and somewhat rambling response (it's written immediately after work!), I would like to once again thank Mr. Terribile for his response and, hopefully, someone has woken up from sleep and started to find a glimmer of light in their attitudes. The saga continues. . . Bullwinkle ...!ihnp4!pur-ee!csd-gould!houligan!farmer P.S.--- As to the type of person I am, (if you are around me). I tend to be cheerful (when I have some sleep), somewhat silly, and willing to lis- ten (though admittedly opinionated). Some call me "weird"(no, only a little strange). -- ----- Bullwinkle ...!ihnp4!pur-ee!csd-gould!houligan!farmer / ...!gould9