Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site ttidcc.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxn!ihnp4!qantel!lll-crg!seismo!cmcl2!philabs!ttidca!ttidcc!hollombe From: hollombe@ttidcc.UUCP (The Polymath) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: sensitivity Message-ID: <39@ttidcc.UUCP> Date: Mon, 2-Dec-85 14:17:09 EST Article-I.D.: ttidcc.39 Posted: Mon Dec 2 14:17:09 1985 Date-Received: Sat, 7-Dec-85 04:41:54 EST References: <1933@zehntel.UUCP> <3850033@csd2.UUCP> <218@unirot.UUCP> <2333@umcp-cs.UUCP> <221@unirot.UUCP> Reply-To: hollombe@ttidcc.UUCP (The Polymath) Organization: The Cat Factory Lines: 27 In article <221@unirot.UUCP> pooh@unirot.UUCP (Pooh) writes: > >Again, I ask: why? Why should we take it on ourselves to tell >someone that he's "fucking up" a situation? Why don't we let him >have the dignity of finding it out himself and deciding for himself >whether he's making a mistake? In general I agree. Four years on a suicide prevention hotline taught me a lot about the futility of trying to help someone who isn't ready to be helped. There is at least one exception though. If the person fucking up is causing _me_ grief or potential grief by doing so I'm going to tell them about it. Politely and gently at first, of course, but if the behavior continues I'm not above dropping a building (or other blunt object) on them. "Excuse me. When you were writing this code, did it happen to occur to you that someone would have to maintain it? I thought not. Well, you can think about it now, while your doing it over again. The coding standard is right over there, in that notebook." -_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_ The Polymath (aka: Jerry Hollombe) Citicorp(+)TTI The more I work with C, the more I 3100 Ocean Park Blvd. appreciate the simple elegance of Santa Monica, CA 90405 FORTRAN. (213) 450-9111, ext. 2483 {philabs,randvax,trwrb,vortex}!ttidca!ttidcc!hollombe