Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site ubc-cs.UUCP Path: utzoo!utcsri!ubc-vision!ubc-cs!manis From: manis@ubc-cs.UUCP (Vince Manis) Newsgroups: net.motss Subject: Re: Turning the other cheek Message-ID: <125@ubc-cs.UUCP> Date: Thu, 12-Dec-85 21:53:25 EST Article-I.D.: ubc-cs.125 Posted: Thu Dec 12 21:53:25 1985 Date-Received: Thu, 12-Dec-85 22:30:57 EST References: <116@ubc-cs.UUCP> <286@Navajo.ARPA> Reply-To: manis@ubc-cs.UUCP (Vince Manis) Distribution: net Organization: UBC Department of Computer Science Lines: 47 Summary: In article <286@Navajo.ARPA> reuling@Navajo.UUCP (John Reuling) writes, in response to a posting of mine regarding the conviction of five teenagers who murdered a gay man in Toronto, >Lordy! The poor guy who happenned to be in the wrong place at the wrong >time is DEAD, and you're feeling sorry about his murderers who will >probably be out on parole in a few years for good behavior?! > >It sounds to me as if you think 'homophobia' is some separate 'entity' >that CAUSES otherwise normal people to do terrible things. But it >wasn't homophobia that killed that man in Toronto. It was five drunk >teenagers who did it. Five PEOPLE. Five PEOPLE who should be held >accountable for their actions. No, I was attempting to state the exact opposite. I'm not minimising the seriousness of their crime, or suggesting that they don't deserve a long prison sentence. The point I was making was that they are as much their own victims as Mr Zeller, the man they murdered. In a society in which gay people are constantly devalued, young people with no apparent homophobic attitudes are nonetheless constantly inundated with anti-gay slurs and innuendos. In some sense it isn't surprising that under the influence of alcohol some of the surface tolerance scrapes off, exposing the bigotry beneath. What's surprising is that it doesn't happen more often. So we have to look for causes. Are these five youths responsible? You bet. They brutally beat a man to death. But what possessed them to think, even in a drunken stupor, that beating up a faggot was ok? You have to look at their social context, at the attitudes of their peer group, and at the homophobic content of much of the mass media, to realise that they simply acted out what others only talked about. So I'm sorry for them, because their lives will be (to some extent at least) blighted by their behaviour. Perhaps if these teenagers had realised what their evening's entertainment was going to do to them over the next decade, Mr Zeller might still be alive today, and perhaps none of them would be going to prison. That doesn't mean they shouldn't be punished, but only that we aren't going to stop queerbashing by arresting queerbashers (EVEN THOUGH WE MUST CONTINUE TO ARREST, TRY, AND IMPRISON PEOPLE GUILTY OF QUEERBASHING). The only genuine way to stop queerbashing is to make everyone aware of what it does to *him*, in that he is going to go to prison for a long time. [I use the masculine pronoun because very few women are queerbashers.] Final (moralistic) note: you can be very sorry for someone, even as you are punishing him/her.