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From: mokhtar@ubc-vision.UUCP (Farzin Mokhtarian)
Newsgroups: net.women
Subject: Re: Other SO's
Message-ID: <30@ubc-vision.UUCP>
Date: Thu, 2-Jan-86 21:38:07 EST
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Posted: Thu Jan  2 21:38:07 1986
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Subject: Re: Other SO's

In article <20800035@ada-uts.UUCP> richw@ada-uts.UUCP writes:
>> Also, if you're told by your SO that she is seeing someone else,
>> what's the "best" way to react (assuming one can be rational)?

Oleg Kiselev responds:
  
> Honesty is the best approach in this case. Be thankful s/he is not cheating.
  
Something went wrong here! I thought what rich meant by "seeing someone else"
was the same thing that some people refer to as "cheating". Is that right or
is it just my dirty mind?! 
I think the "best" way to react is to show her that you still care about her
(as one usually does about his/her SO) and talk about it. Try not to feel
"cheated" if you can.
         Farzin Mokhtarian
      
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